fr: -kat- a.k.a. crusivol
pde ask ako sa inio? ganito kasi yan mga guys may problema ako about this certain girl... ang girl na toh i like her very much... alam nia pero di ko alam kung like nia rin ako... almost 1 month ko n cia court... pero sabi nia wala daw cia gusto tlga sa akin... pero e2 ako baliw sa love court ko pa rin cia.. never surrender ika nga... sabi nga nia wag ko n cia tawagan... di ko nga cia tinawagan pero last week sabi nia call ko cia... ano ba un! tapos nun mukhang olrayt n uli lahat... last sabado nga nagbar kami kasama friends ko... pero nainis cia sa akin... 25 mins late daw me sa pagsundo sa kanya... tapos sa bar raw tahimik ako at di cia kinakausap... (kinakausap ko nmn pero di madalas) haiiiz tapos aun nga sabi nia inis rin cia sa pagalisalis ko... kea dinedma nia ako... e2 tanong ko ngayon... bat cia naga2lit ng ganun? GF ko ba cia para magalit cia ng ganun? e cia na nagsabi na wala tlga... tingin nio sa pangya2ri na un may small chance ba ako na makapiling cia 4life... i really like her....
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It is a natural human trait to feel a deep kind of satisfaction or gratification, when we are being appreciated and loved. Such feelings of fulfillment are sort of addictive that once its source is taken away from you, a sense of loss will ensue. The same premise can be applied with your query about why she is as you said - "bat cia naga2lit ng ganun? GF ko ba cia para magalit cia ng ganun? e cia na nagsabi na wala tlga?". All because of your portrayal of something that is out of the usual ?Im So In Love With You? that she is quite accustomed to; "nainis cia sa akin... 25 mins late daw me sa pagsundo sa kanya... tapos sa bar raw tahimik ako at di cia kinakausap"
No person in this world can deny him/herself the satisfaction and the inconspicuous appreciation that comes from knowing that someone loves them. We may not choose to respond from it but it is a fact that once that love is taken away from you, you will seek to acquire it back even though you know that you do not want to reciprocate, at first.
" tingin nio sa pangya2ri na un may small chance ba ako na makapiling cia 4life... i really like her...."
Remember this; the only time to at least think of giving up on love while you are in the middle of courtship is when apathy comes unfolding. As long as certain feelings are being recognized and somehow responded to, then good possibilities abound. So don?t lose hope, it is far better to have hope than despair.
You'll be surprised to find out how far you can go from the point where you thought it was the end. Patience and fortitude are part ingredients of a beautiful love relationship, especially in its beginning phase.
^_^
Wednesday, November 14, 2007
Self Notion
Fr: Nazgul of RB
Quick question: What can one do if one's on the rebound from a failed long-term relationship (flirting skills = rusty); is a well known snob or "too close to girls", and people think he's not date material but very much friend material?
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How you see and perceive yourself is different with how you portray yourself. The famous line from a Batman movie comes to play ”It is not what you are deep inside, it is what you do.. that defines you”
Put it simply, all the things that you do will serve as sort of a façade that will determine how people will perceive you as. Since they have no other means from which to draw conclusions, people will just simply base their perception of you on what is conspicuous, however speculative that may be.
So you think you are a bit rusty in the field of relating, you think that people consider you as being “too close to girls” therefore should not be trusted when it comes to intimacy or that you are not a BF material so should only be treated as a friend. That my friend is how you perceive yourself and can be considered as a simple self notion. Then again.. if somebody tells you all that, then let ‘that’ serve as a challenge for you – prove them wrong!
The question that you should be asking yourself is ”Am I ready to finally give what is due not just to myself but to the one that I want to be with?”
When you have finally chosen someone to pursue and you're ready to make a full commitment, you will find yourself asking question and have sort of a nagging sense of self-doubt. ”Is she/he really the one for me?”, Am I making the right choice?, Will I fail?, Will I not regret this in the long run?, Does she/he feels the same way?”
Yes these queries are quite natural, you just simply want to ensure yourself. Well, the best way to make sure a relationship succeeds is to make sure it's the right one from the start! Now take that necessary first step and cross the bridge to the other side. You'll never know, unless you'll give it in to it, like first class.
Good Luck!
Quick question: What can one do if one's on the rebound from a failed long-term relationship (flirting skills = rusty); is a well known snob or "too close to girls", and people think he's not date material but very much friend material?
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How you see and perceive yourself is different with how you portray yourself. The famous line from a Batman movie comes to play ”It is not what you are deep inside, it is what you do.. that defines you”
Put it simply, all the things that you do will serve as sort of a façade that will determine how people will perceive you as. Since they have no other means from which to draw conclusions, people will just simply base their perception of you on what is conspicuous, however speculative that may be.
So you think you are a bit rusty in the field of relating, you think that people consider you as being “too close to girls” therefore should not be trusted when it comes to intimacy or that you are not a BF material so should only be treated as a friend. That my friend is how you perceive yourself and can be considered as a simple self notion. Then again.. if somebody tells you all that, then let ‘that’ serve as a challenge for you – prove them wrong!
The question that you should be asking yourself is ”Am I ready to finally give what is due not just to myself but to the one that I want to be with?”
When you have finally chosen someone to pursue and you're ready to make a full commitment, you will find yourself asking question and have sort of a nagging sense of self-doubt. ”Is she/he really the one for me?”, Am I making the right choice?, Will I fail?, Will I not regret this in the long run?, Does she/he feels the same way?”
Yes these queries are quite natural, you just simply want to ensure yourself. Well, the best way to make sure a relationship succeeds is to make sure it's the right one from the start! Now take that necessary first step and cross the bridge to the other side. You'll never know, unless you'll give it in to it, like first class.
Good Luck!
The forgotten Blog
Damn! If I can only clone myself!!
I know, I know.. it takes once every 4 to 5 months for me to be able to spare lil of my time to put something into this blog. Oh well, since Im home and sick, might as well update a lil. I'll just have a snack first and drink my meds. ^_^
I know, I know.. it takes once every 4 to 5 months for me to be able to spare lil of my time to put something into this blog. Oh well, since Im home and sick, might as well update a lil. I'll just have a snack first and drink my meds. ^_^
Friday, August 24, 2007
Sen. Francis "Kiko" Pangilinan
(Live Interview over dwOK-FM 97.5mhz)I believe that the very next thing any filipino will think about, after hearing the name "Kiko Pangilinan" is his ultra popular wife, the Megastar Ms Sharon Cuneta. We were and still are being bombarded by their images and pictures together on most if not all of the available media outlets, thus proving that fame together with achievements and the right marketing campaign can and will lead you to the philippine senate.
Francis "Kiko" Nepomuceno Pangilinan, a fellow Media Broadcast Practitioner who 1st started as a young lawyer giving free legal assistance on-air over at 'Hoy Gising' of ABS-CBN TV and a couple of AM Radio Shows at DZMM then conceptualized and hosted 'Barangay Dos' also at ABS-CBN upon which said program established him as an intelligent, articulate and self involving to the plight of common filipinos kind of a Media Broadcaster. While most believe that it is his wife who mainly contributed into his garnering of massive votes, I on the other hand find it bit conspicuous that it is his achievements that served to plow the road leading to the Phil Senate.
(Lunch Meeting at the Zoobic Safari Resto)I was flabbergasted with his sudden unannounced station visit with his family, too bad KC is not with em (/wah). He said since his family is having a vacation here in the Subic Bay Freeport Zone, they might as well visit the top broadcast station in the region.
The interview started with the usual casual introduction, followed by why they are here and how they find the Greater Subic Bay Area as a tourist destination. Discussed mostly about what he is currently up to in the senate, bit of progress report and future plans. All in all its just another political, promotional interview with a wee bit of showbizness on the side.
Went on to have a launch meet and as the current president of the Subic Bay Press Corps, I personally open-tackled some issues regarding media rights, coverages and focused on the hot issue of continuous killing of broadcast media personnel & journalists. He vowed to do the best he can to help out in spreading the campaign and allot some budget to help uplift the situation of some unfortunate fellow journalists / media practitioners.
Thursday, August 23, 2007
Unrequited Love
Fr: TSG
Hi Dj_BB! I have this question that's been bothering me eversince I can remember. Why is it that some people often fall in love with someone who doesn't love them in return? Unrequited love. Or why is it that some people don't fall in love with people who are in love with them? Still, Unrequited love. Could you expand on this a bit more. That Unrequited love thing is getting annoying!
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Indeed, one of the hardest if not the hardest situation ever is to sit beside the one you love and not be able to freely tell them how much you truly love them, not be able to hug them so tight and get the same reaction in return ? thus, your love is unrequited (not returned nor reciprocated, repaid nor satisfied)
Age old Cliche - it takes two to tango. A love relationship is like a two way street. Like a baseball catch play whereas either of the two players must throw and catch the ball, should either one stop ? its game over. TSG's prob is that the game never got started in the first place, all due to the absence of cooperation from the other player.
Truth be told; there are gazillion things in this world that you can have, you can attain and you can control, but on the other side of the coin, there are also gazillions things in this world that you can never have, can never attain and can never control. It is not funny playing by the rules.. It really sucks like hell, but That?s Just The Way It Is!! (6 simple words that I tell myself every single time that despair comes knockin` in my mind)
In the words of Billie Joe Armstrong "You can't go forcing something that's just not right"
In a world full of complexities, it is the simplest explanation that tends to be the right one; It is neither your fault nor the one you want to be with, when it comes to unrequited love. When you tried everything but to no avail and ended up in absolute futility.. then just simply remember the aforementioned 6 words.
All is not lost though! Look at the bright side; at least you are getting stronger as you experience difficulties brought about by heartaches, these difficulties tend to make you stronger not weaker. Experiential learning is definitely innate, more than just a requirement to grow. And.. after meeting a few wrong ones, imagine how grandeur it will be once you meet the right one.
Two things:
- either you are not meant to be or
- you just haven't contributed much to make it blossom into a beautiful love relationship.
Love is like a plant of slow growth; it does not grow, take root and bloom overnight. It needs to be pampered and nurtured with sunlight, water and all the other things that it requires. Once it becomes a beautiful plant, you will have to continue nurturing it or else it will wither away and die out of neglect.
Hi Dj_BB! I have this question that's been bothering me eversince I can remember. Why is it that some people often fall in love with someone who doesn't love them in return? Unrequited love. Or why is it that some people don't fall in love with people who are in love with them? Still, Unrequited love. Could you expand on this a bit more. That Unrequited love thing is getting annoying!
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Indeed, one of the hardest if not the hardest situation ever is to sit beside the one you love and not be able to freely tell them how much you truly love them, not be able to hug them so tight and get the same reaction in return ? thus, your love is unrequited (not returned nor reciprocated, repaid nor satisfied)
Age old Cliche - it takes two to tango. A love relationship is like a two way street. Like a baseball catch play whereas either of the two players must throw and catch the ball, should either one stop ? its game over. TSG's prob is that the game never got started in the first place, all due to the absence of cooperation from the other player.
Truth be told; there are gazillion things in this world that you can have, you can attain and you can control, but on the other side of the coin, there are also gazillions things in this world that you can never have, can never attain and can never control. It is not funny playing by the rules.. It really sucks like hell, but That?s Just The Way It Is!! (6 simple words that I tell myself every single time that despair comes knockin` in my mind)
In the words of Billie Joe Armstrong "You can't go forcing something that's just not right"
In a world full of complexities, it is the simplest explanation that tends to be the right one; It is neither your fault nor the one you want to be with, when it comes to unrequited love. When you tried everything but to no avail and ended up in absolute futility.. then just simply remember the aforementioned 6 words.
All is not lost though! Look at the bright side; at least you are getting stronger as you experience difficulties brought about by heartaches, these difficulties tend to make you stronger not weaker. Experiential learning is definitely innate, more than just a requirement to grow. And.. after meeting a few wrong ones, imagine how grandeur it will be once you meet the right one.
Two things:
- either you are not meant to be or
- you just haven't contributed much to make it blossom into a beautiful love relationship.
Love is like a plant of slow growth; it does not grow, take root and bloom overnight. It needs to be pampered and nurtured with sunlight, water and all the other things that it requires. Once it becomes a beautiful plant, you will have to continue nurturing it or else it will wither away and die out of neglect.
Breaking Up!
Fr: Mhike
"I need na pumunta ng baguio para mag aral sa SLU and dun na ko mag stay with my sister. syempre maiiwan ko na yung gf ko na nasa bataan. katulad sa sister ko na di nagwork yung long distance relationship. alam ko naman na ganun din kahihinatnan namin ng gf ko. my gf is studying here sa province while ako naman panibagong buhay sa malayong lugar. ilang beses ko ng try na makipag break pero ayaw nya. ano gagawin ko?"
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I think it is pretty obvious that Love still exist deep within, it also wee bit obvious that you have already chosen the path to a better future over and against the path to a possible life with your Girlfriend. In some cases, both paths can crisscross harmoniously and be achieved eventually, yet in your case, deeply influenced by the 2nd hand experiential learning of a close relative, that you have chosen otherwise.
Break Up! Just the mere uttering of it suggests a situation with inevitable pain, suffering and loss from either parties or just one. Even if both parties may well agree that it is in their best interests to severe their romantic ties and part ways due to legitimate reasons, still.. there is a certain amount of loss attached to it.
The best way to approach a situation where a break up is finally needed to suffice the present interests, is to do it with the best of your ability to come up with as little pain as possible so as to smoothen the transition and dissipation of the suffering that it will entail.
You know your Girlfriend better than anyone else, your knowledge about her emotional capabilities will definitely help in determining the factors you will need to consider in the break up process. Factors are:
- the right time to do it;
- the best place to do it;
- the best reasons on why you both need to do it and
- most importantly, why she must have to completely accept it.
Remember, no matter how you do it, or how you express it in things you say - if you are completely honest with yourself and so does your partner, then you will both be able to move on and grow from this experience.
Much like in the cliche "If it was meant to be, it will be."
Your situation reminds me of the song There's No Easy Way to Break Somebody's Heart - James Ingram
(I kinda like the version of Livingston Taylor)
"I need na pumunta ng baguio para mag aral sa SLU and dun na ko mag stay with my sister. syempre maiiwan ko na yung gf ko na nasa bataan. katulad sa sister ko na di nagwork yung long distance relationship. alam ko naman na ganun din kahihinatnan namin ng gf ko. my gf is studying here sa province while ako naman panibagong buhay sa malayong lugar. ilang beses ko ng try na makipag break pero ayaw nya. ano gagawin ko?"
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I think it is pretty obvious that Love still exist deep within, it also wee bit obvious that you have already chosen the path to a better future over and against the path to a possible life with your Girlfriend. In some cases, both paths can crisscross harmoniously and be achieved eventually, yet in your case, deeply influenced by the 2nd hand experiential learning of a close relative, that you have chosen otherwise.
Break Up! Just the mere uttering of it suggests a situation with inevitable pain, suffering and loss from either parties or just one. Even if both parties may well agree that it is in their best interests to severe their romantic ties and part ways due to legitimate reasons, still.. there is a certain amount of loss attached to it.
The best way to approach a situation where a break up is finally needed to suffice the present interests, is to do it with the best of your ability to come up with as little pain as possible so as to smoothen the transition and dissipation of the suffering that it will entail.
You know your Girlfriend better than anyone else, your knowledge about her emotional capabilities will definitely help in determining the factors you will need to consider in the break up process. Factors are:
- the right time to do it;
- the best place to do it;
- the best reasons on why you both need to do it and
- most importantly, why she must have to completely accept it.
Remember, no matter how you do it, or how you express it in things you say - if you are completely honest with yourself and so does your partner, then you will both be able to move on and grow from this experience.
Much like in the cliche "If it was meant to be, it will be."
Your situation reminds me of the song There's No Easy Way to Break Somebody's Heart - James Ingram
(I kinda like the version of Livingston Taylor)
Searching for the Right Girl
Fr: RS
"Hi, I wanna ask an advice about tips in searching for the right girl who will love me as much as i love her. Lagi akong malas sa pag-ibig kc lagi akong BASTED pagdating sa babae."
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We can never really choose who we want to love. At the end of the day, we must come to realize that love is exactly what it is ? an emotion so strong, that we can never sway nor veer away from.
As part essence, Love is not about finding the right person, but creating a right relationship. It is not about the feelings you have with the person, but all the things you are willing to share with that person. It is not about how deep and how much love you have in the beginning but how much love you build till the end.
Don't you find it funny that deep within our minds we always brew a lot of criteria when it comes to the one we want to fall in love with and perhaps be with for the rest of our days, when in reality we somehow know that the one we're going to fall in love with is and will always be an exemption.
Then again.. "Lagi akong malas sa pag-ibig kc lagi akong BASTED pagdating sa babae"
Like what I said before; in order to attract love, you will have to be lovable and if you have to do anything for a special someone, do it in the spirit of love. If you fail, at least you tried and did everything in the spirit of love. It doesn't matter whether the answer is going to be a YES or a NO, the only thing that matters is you did what you have to - all for the sake of love.
So ask yourself how will you show it, how will you make her feel all the love that you possess and all the clear intentions that you have from deep inside of you. Then.. So be it!
"Hi, I wanna ask an advice about tips in searching for the right girl who will love me as much as i love her. Lagi akong malas sa pag-ibig kc lagi akong BASTED pagdating sa babae."
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We can never really choose who we want to love. At the end of the day, we must come to realize that love is exactly what it is ? an emotion so strong, that we can never sway nor veer away from.
As part essence, Love is not about finding the right person, but creating a right relationship. It is not about the feelings you have with the person, but all the things you are willing to share with that person. It is not about how deep and how much love you have in the beginning but how much love you build till the end.
Don't you find it funny that deep within our minds we always brew a lot of criteria when it comes to the one we want to fall in love with and perhaps be with for the rest of our days, when in reality we somehow know that the one we're going to fall in love with is and will always be an exemption.
Then again.. "Lagi akong malas sa pag-ibig kc lagi akong BASTED pagdating sa babae"
Like what I said before; in order to attract love, you will have to be lovable and if you have to do anything for a special someone, do it in the spirit of love. If you fail, at least you tried and did everything in the spirit of love. It doesn't matter whether the answer is going to be a YES or a NO, the only thing that matters is you did what you have to - all for the sake of love.
So ask yourself how will you show it, how will you make her feel all the love that you possess and all the clear intentions that you have from deep inside of you. Then.. So be it!
Busy Busy Busy Busy - Construction of new TV Station
My 1st ever blog! Created April 18, 2007 posted a few on said date of creation and hibernated afterwards for half a year. Been so busy with the Construction of the TV station Building and Studios. Now that we are finally done wit it, I can finally tinker back on some of the things I have neglected.
Lemme start by posting some of the Love Advices that I previously posted on some other forums. Btw, you can listen to my Lover's Lane radio program every Sunday night 9pm to 12mn over at dwOK-FM 97.5mhz, tis a specialized FM radio program where listeners can call live-on-air and read / dedicate a love message and ask for an advice with yours truly. Apt love songs ensue afterwards. ^_^
Lemme start by posting some of the Love Advices that I previously posted on some other forums. Btw, you can listen to my Lover's Lane radio program every Sunday night 9pm to 12mn over at dwOK-FM 97.5mhz, tis a specialized FM radio program where listeners can call live-on-air and read / dedicate a love message and ask for an advice with yours truly. Apt love songs ensue afterwards. ^_^
Wednesday, April 18, 2007
As Moderator of Sen. Loren Legarda Press Conference
In her presence, you'll find yourself in the company of a deeply fascinating and highly intelligent no-non-sense person. Elected to the Philippine Senate in 1998, she topped the senatorial race with an overwhelming mandate of more than 15 million votes, and became the youngest woman elected to the Senate. Now she is about to break record again as per latest surveys of 'SWS', 'Pulse Asia' & 'Ibon' where she all ranked as #1 with 15% more votes than ranked #2 Chiz Escudero. WheW!
I am deeply honored to moderate her Press Conference & to hear her whisperin in my ears afterwards "You did a wonderful job Mr. Double B, deserving of a high commendation" - I just died!.
Two thumbs up!
Two thumbs up!
pRO - The Hell with Great Axe! I want the Guillotine!!
Oh Ehm Gee! Im pretty unlucky these past few weeks, been drooling over my next Guillotine but the freagin` quest NPC gave me another Great Axe. Waaaaaaaahhhh.... Oh well! Cest La Vie
check my guide on pRO (Phillipine Ragnarok Online) complete Lv. 4 Class S & A Weapons Quest Guide and Walkthrough at the Ragnaboards.
Lv 4 Weapons Class - A
Lv. 4 Weapons Class - S
As Moderator of Chiz Escudero Press Conference
Wafu fafa Chiz! Aw.. aherm...
I love the way this dude talks, straight to the point, no fuss, no frills. The clarity of his thoughts are even ubber admirable. As usual bout political peepz, he promoted himself and advocated some if not all of his ongoing and future projects for various entities in government and the general populous.
Been bit fascinated by one of his 'preachings' during the said press con - bout how & when should we properly use the english language and tagalog. A true master of the art of public speaking, thus inducing fascination and admiration everytime he opens his mouth.
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