She Likes Me... She Likes Me Not...

fr: -kat- a.k.a. crusivol

pde ask ako sa inio? ganito kasi yan mga guys may problema ako about this certain girl... ang girl na toh i like her very much... alam nia pero di ko alam kung like nia rin ako... almost 1 month ko n cia court... pero sabi nia wala daw cia gusto tlga sa akin... pero e2 ako baliw sa love court ko pa rin cia.. never surrender ika nga... sabi nga nia wag ko n cia tawagan... di ko nga cia tinawagan pero last week sabi nia call ko cia... ano ba un! tapos nun mukhang olrayt n uli lahat... last sabado nga nagbar kami kasama friends ko... pero nainis cia sa akin... 25 mins late daw me sa pagsundo sa kanya... tapos sa bar raw tahimik ako at di cia kinakausap... (kinakausap ko nmn pero di madalas) haiiiz tapos aun nga sabi nia inis rin cia sa pagalisalis ko... kea dinedma nia ako... e2 tanong ko ngayon... bat cia naga2lit ng ganun? GF ko ba cia para magalit cia ng ganun? e cia na nagsabi na wala tlga... tingin nio sa pangya2ri na un may small chance ba ako na makapiling cia 4life... i really like her....

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It is a natural human trait to feel a deep kind of satisfaction or gratification, when we are being appreciated and loved. Such feelings of fulfillment are sort of addictive that once its source is taken away from you, a sense of loss will ensue. The same premise can be applied with your query about why she is as you said - "bat cia naga2lit ng ganun? GF ko ba cia para magalit cia ng ganun? e cia na nagsabi na wala tlga?". All because of your portrayal of something that is out of the usual ?Im So In Love With You? that she is quite accustomed to; "nainis cia sa akin... 25 mins late daw me sa pagsundo sa kanya... tapos sa bar raw tahimik ako at di cia kinakausap"

No person in this world can deny him/herself the satisfaction and the inconspicuous appreciation that comes from knowing that someone loves them. We may not choose to respond from it but it is a fact that once that love is taken away from you, you will seek to acquire it back even though you know that you do not want to reciprocate, at first.

" tingin nio sa pangya2ri na un may small chance ba ako na makapiling cia 4life... i really like her...."
Remember this; the only time to at least think of giving up on love while you are in the middle of courtship is when apathy comes unfolding. As long as certain feelings are being recognized and somehow responded to, then good possibilities abound. So don?t lose hope, it is far better to have hope than despair.

You'll be surprised to find out how far you can go from the point where you thought it was the end. Patience and fortitude are part ingredients of a beautiful love relationship, especially in its beginning phase.

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