Searching for the Right Girl

Fr: RS

"Hi, I wanna ask an advice about tips in searching for the right girl who will love me as much as i love her. Lagi akong malas sa pag-ibig kc lagi akong BASTED pagdating sa babae."


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We can never really choose who we want to love. At the end of the day, we must come to realize that love is exactly what it is ? an emotion so strong, that we can never sway nor veer away from.

As part essence, Love is not about finding the right person, but creating a right relationship. It is not about the feelings you have with the person, but all the things you are willing to share with that person. It is not about how deep and how much love you have in the beginning but how much love you build till the end.

Don't you find it funny that deep within our minds we always brew a lot of criteria when it comes to the one we want to fall in love with and perhaps be with for the rest of our days, when in reality we somehow know that the one we're going to fall in love with is and will always be an exemption.

Then again.. "Lagi akong malas sa pag-ibig kc lagi akong BASTED pagdating sa babae"

Like what I said before; in order to attract love, you will have to be lovable and if you have to do anything for a special someone, do it in the spirit of love. If you fail, at least you tried and did everything in the spirit of love. It doesn't matter whether the answer is going to be a YES or a NO, the only thing that matters is you did what you have to - all for the sake of love.

So ask yourself how will you show it, how will you make her feel all the love that you possess and all the clear intentions that you have from deep inside of you. Then.. So be it!